Canadian Automobile Association: Helping Aging Drivers
How to Help an Older Driver
Get the facts
Learn about the danger signs for older drivers and observe your own, or your relative's, driving to see if they commit the same errors. People are more responsive to those who have driven with them.
Observe the driver
Learn to watch for danger signs that indicate the individual's driving ability is deteriorating, and use examples to discuss how they can safely proceed. You can find a check list of dangerous behaviours here.
Consult a doctor
A medical professional can determine if the driver's medical history is affecting their driving skill. Some doctors will take an active role, while others may refer you to an occupational therapist or driving rehabilitation therapist.
Investigate the alternatives
Talking about mobility options and choices ahead of need can greatly reduce the anxiety later. To ensure that the driver is not house-bound when he or she is no longer able to drive, plan now. Investigate options such as community transportation services that specialize in helping older (but not necessarily disabled) individuals, as well as support offered by seniors groups, faith-based groups, friends and family. Assess the cost and determine a realistic transportation budget and any criteria that are necessary to participate in a local program.
If the individual is uncomfortable taking rides for free from a friend or family member, suggest an "exchange of services program" where they can trade something for the ride, such as cooking the driver dinner or paying them for the gas they use.
Above all, be supportive (and seek support)
If the older driver's skill continues to deteriorate even after self-imposed restrictions are in place, further conversations may be required. This can be a difficult time, and may require additional support from police, a doctor or additional family members.
The transition will require understanding on the part of family members. What's important is to remember that it is not always easy for older drivers to surrender the freedom and control they feel being able to drive themselves anywhere they like. Having a plan and support network in place ahead of time gives families an opportunity to work out these issues.