Canadian Automobile Association: Helping Aging Drivers
No one wants to give up their licence because of their age.
Whether due to diminishing eyesight, strength, memory, or something else, broaching the subject of giving up driving is tough.
Prepare for the person you're speaking with to react negatively. The implications associated with giving up driving include: fewer trips out; increased/permanent dependency on others for transportation; becoming a "burden" to others; and fewer social opportunities.
It's not easy, but what you say or do not say to your family member or friend will influence their decision, and could make the difference between safety and injury.
Plan ahead
Do not postpone discussion because of fear or guilt. Protecting a life is more important than protecting feelings!
Prepare to raise the issue more than once; begin by broaching the subject before it becomes an issue, and discuss options.
Choose the messenger
Talk with other family members, your doctor, and close friends to determine the best person for "the conversation."
Studies conducted by Harvard and MIT show that while most drivers preferred to discuss the issue with their spouse, doctor or adult children (in that order), this is not the case for everyone. The right person may not necessarily be the most forceful or outspoken one, but rather someone whose judgement and empathy are especially trusted by the driver.